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What are the traits of an ideal Master? What kind of men do women generally require for dominating them sexually? Think along the lines of appearance, personality, lifestyle and other aspects.
Would you have ‘submitted’ to all your sex partners if they suggested such a D/s relationship? If not then what are the qualities of your current Master that sets him apart from your previous sex partners / ex’s? Are you more attracted to him than any other? does sumbission requires a greater degree of physical/sexual attraction?
You know, I’ve had to let this sit for a while because I’ve really had to think about it. I think the traits of an ‘ideal’ Master are different for every person involved in the D/s lifestyle. For me, I’d say at least some of the traits would be a person who is caring, kind, patient, loving, domineering, assertive (but aggressive when needed), strict, and apt to take a leadership role. I don’t really know what you mean by ‘kind of men’, although I would suspect that most people would expect a dominant man to be doing the dominating. Appearance, personality, and lifestyle are each relevant and irrelevant. To me, appearance only matters in terms of attraction - there is no ‘Dom look’ that one has to adhere to in order to be a successful Dom. Personality, for me, is embodying some of the traits I posted above. Lifestyle? I want someone to live their life. Even if this is a 24/7 deal, there is no certain lifestyle (job, assets, etc.) that goes along with being a Dom, because being a Dom is all about what’s on the inside.
Would I have submitted, truly submitted body, heart, soul, and mind as I have for my Master, to my previous partners? Probably not. I would have gladly roleplayed, and that would probably have satiated me for a little bit. But with Master… I know this sounds really cheesy and cliche, but there’s just something so natural about our chemistry. We didn’t really plan or talk about becoming Master/kitten, it just happened. As we talked and became more comfortable as friends, our very obvious (to me anyways :p) sexual tension grew and grew, until eventually one day it culminated in us messing around and him saying some very dominant things to me. I don’t think we ever really even had a conversation defining the terms of our ‘relationship’ in the beginning (though we’ve had smaller, more clarifying conversations since then); we both just knew that this was what it was, and that we were both happy and satiated by it.
I wouldn’t say that I’m more attracted to him, because I don’t believe in such nonsense. There is no best when it comes to love or sex - whatever you had in that time that felt like the best is what matters. I am very, very attracted to him, but I wouldn’t say that my attraction to him is paramount to that of my previous partners. And in all honesty, I don’t think submission is all about attraction. I submit to my Master because I trust Him and because I want to submit to Him. He is a very Dominating person, and he is also like the yin to my yang. Of course I’m very attracted to him, both physically and sexually, but it’s not even just that that compels me to submit to him. It’s the fact that I want to, that I want to give up my body, my heart, my mind, and my soul for Him and His use and His care. And ‘natural chemistry’ is the only reason I can absolutely think of outside of the fact that I just simply want to.
Thank you for the really insightful question! I would enjoy more like this :)
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I love when He calls me for one reason, and one reason only - because He needs to get off, and He wants my moans to be the reason He does. He tells me to rub His property and moan and cum, all for His pleasure, all for the ultimate goal of getting Him off.
And then, after we’re done, He might indulge me in a little pillow talk, or He might just hang up and go out with His friends, leaving me to feel like the little fucktoy i am.
And I love every. fucking. second.
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Master loves to humiliate me, in some of the best ways possible. He loves that some good old embarrassment leaves His property dripping wet, ready for His hard cock to plunge in deep. Last week, I was incredibly horny. My libido was through the roof, and I was having a really hard time handling it. Of course, the way Master handles it is through testing His slut.
At first, I was begging Him to allow me to play. I said one of the most dangerous things I ever could: that I would do anything for a chance to cum. I couldn’t see Him, but I know he smirked devilishly, as He first asked me some of my crushes in a certain fandom we like, since I had previously refuse to disclose them to Him. My cheeks flushed scarlet, but I told Him what He wanted to know, hoping it would turn Him merciful.
After a few more minutes of begging and pleading, He finally told me I was allowed to edge myself until He deemed me ready to cum. I gladly shoved my hand down my panties and rubbed His property, gently stroking my clit, enjoying my wetness. I brought a finger to my lips and tasted my sweet juices, moaning as I trailed my hand back down my body to my aching pussy, pretending He was the one caressing me. Then He told me we were going to play a game, one of His favorite games. Dread rolled through, though anticipation just made my clit throb harder.
The game was to, once again, have a normal conversation with Him while trying to edge myself. We did this one the computer at first, but He decided that wasn’t much fun. He surprised me by calling me. I answered the phone, breathing heavy and moaning softly. He chuckled, and began asking me questions about a tv show we’d watched together a few hours beforehand. I tried my very best to keep from moaning and to keep answering His questions, but it became increasingly difficult. Eventually I gave up talking altogether, and simply begged Him for my release.
He wasn’t having it, and He declined my requests, soon putting the phone down to talk to His boss. I had chills, I was sweating, and I was legitimately begging to cum, though I knew He wasn’t even on the phone at the moment. After His boss left, He came back to tell me to cum hard for Him. And cum hard I did. I screamed and moaned and writhed for Him, thanking Him for allowing me to cum like a good little slut.
Over the next hour, I played for Him over the phone while He worked. Countless phone calls and customers kept dragging His attention away while I fucked my slutty little pussy for all its worth. I only came harder, knowing that He was at work, knowing that there was a chance of being caught, and knowing that it was absolutely turning Him on.
Thankfully, he eventually let me stop, with an almost-numb clit and a swollen, sore pussy. That’s when He dropped the real bomb - His boss had been ten feet or less away through our entire “conversation”. I was humiliated and embarrassed by this, yet also aroused. I’m a little exhibitionist slut, I love the idea of being caught, it turns me on so fucking much.
I’m so glad to be His little kitten, though He always manages to make me blush. :)
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And at those times, I browse through the cute messages and pictures that He has sent me, and though I want His arms wrapped around me so badly, I remind myself that He wants the exact same thing. Sometimes it works, and i don’t feel so lonely anymore. I kneel on the floor, as i would at His feet, and i close my eyes and pretend to feel His arms wrapping around me. Exactly the way I want.
I am so lucky to be loved.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Oh my, that’s really really hard. It all depends on my mood and the situation. Recently i’ve been loving my plugs, working at getting bigger ones in there so that when i meet Master i won’t have any problems taking His thick cock in my ass. Other than that, I’ve been a painslut/extreme masochist recently, and have begun playing with candle wax, nipple clamps (other than clothespins), and I’ve been toying with the idea of buying a crop, which I think Master is just as excited about. He’s a sadist and He loves to hear me in pain anyways.
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Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.
Hmmm, probably the one and only time I was ever tied up. I was dealing with a rather dominant man at the time, one who introduced me to more erogenous zones than I knew existed (like having my wrists bitten.. literally sent shivers up my spine) and also confirmed my love for some kinks, like having my nipples bitten or being scratched. One time, I ended up over at his house, and things got a little hot. I confessed that I had never been tied up before, to which he grinned and walked away silently. I propped myself up in his bed and waited patiently until he returned with a belt. He immediately took my wrists and bound them together, and then lifted them over my head and bound them to this loft-style thing above his bed. He then spent some time biting at my nipples and making me squeal before heading down to eat me out (and let me tell you, he was pretty boss at eating pussy, probably the only reason I dealt with him as long as I did). Being tied up and unable to move away was extremely sexy. I struggled a little bit, and when I tensed up I could feel the belt biting into my wrists, but it was enjoyable overall. Definitely something I’ve been wanting to happen again.
Since that’s the kinkiest thing I’ve ever really done, I’d have to say I can’t wait to meet my Master and experience a full-on kink session with Him. I’m anticipating a very good spanking, on top of being tied up, flogged, caned, cropped, whipped, smacked, scratched, bitten, and fucked roughly in every orifice. And if I’m a good little kitten, He may just cum deep in my pussy or, better yet, down my throat.
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Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
None that I can particularly remember. In fact, I was almost the opposite of myself. I hated being yelled at, I hated being objectified or degraded or patronized, I hated any kind of pain haha. Oh the wonders that going through puberty can do!
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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Hm. That’s a really good question actually. I don’t think there was ever an epiphany, a moment where I realized “hey i like kinky sex and bdsm!’. I do know that I started out looking at Whipped Ass at an age that I’m uncomfortable listing here. Needless to say, I was much too young to be looking at what I was. However, the images and videos intrigued me, and from that point on, I really started to come to terms with the kind of sex that I liked. I’ve always been somewhat of a feminist, but the idea of being humiliated and objectified has always been a turn-on in the back of my head. When I started having sex a few years later, I was always on the search for rough sex, and for more and more dominant men to have sex with. I wanted someone to put me in my place and to treat me the way I needed to be treated in and out of the bedroom. As of now, I’m pretty sure I’ve found that.
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Day 2: List your kinks.
Oops. I did that on day one. Damn my clarifying. I’ll repost them!
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